…And get past it.
Hey, all of you cuties! I have been long for a while, I know I said I would be posting more, but as you know, university steals all of one’s time. During this period of time, I have learned I did not know half as much as I thought I did, and people were not going to be there to solve it for me just like they would in high school. Sure, professors have tutoring scheduled during the week, but that doesn’t mean you will get things sorted within the span of an hour.
What I really would like to pass on would be the ability to fail and move past it.
Let’s get into situation here. A test did not go as planned, you have studied thoroughly (or maybe not) and things have piled up, you are stressed and you really need to lay down and cry for a while. Well, here are some simple steps to follow at this point.
1. Cry. Hard.
I know this sounds like a really bad thing to say, but you need to cry it out. Really, it helps to cry and feel like you’re too small for this, like you’re not smart enough, like you just won’t make it any time soon. It helps because you need to let those feelings out. If you can, talk about it with someone who you’re comfortable crying in front of.
2. Organize and clean your living/working space
In order to move on from failure, you will need a clean start – a clean slate. Put on some upbeat music and give your space a thorough cleaning. It will help you get rid of the feeling of failure.
It does not matter how long it takes. I repeat, it does not matter how long it takes for you to finish organizing and cleaning your space. Healing takes time, so use it (wisely). Do not use that time to procrastinate, play video games or whatever.
3. Gather the work that you haven’t passed
Take every single sheet of paper that you have used to study. Even the ones you have scribbled on. Now, organize it by subjects if there are more than one. Take each subject and make it organized enough for you to know where everything is. You will be revising this later, so you might want to make it comfortable for you to look at. If needed, get rid of paper you will not be using or use it to scribble on when you need to.
4. Organize your time
Your time is precious. As I said at the beginning of this post, in university you barely know what’s going on or where your hours go to. I have plenty of posts for you to scroll through and gather whatever you need to in order to organize yourself, whether it’s an agenda, a bullet journal, or anything else you might need.
Now, if you have new subjects, make them a priority. Of course, you don’t want your past mistake to carry on throughout the rest of your studying. After you have set your priorities straight, you will want to schedule the subject(s) you haven’t passed in the spaces you might have available.
5. Get to work
That is it!! Well, not really. Now is when the hard part comes, you need to actually get down to do some actual studying. You have no time to waste, but do not make it your life. You can finish university in a few more years time if that is what it takes. You need to go out moderately, you need to socialize at the same time you study and grow academically. Otherwise, you will not grow as a person altogether.
I hope that this helped all of you that have a problem like this (such as myself). Feel free to like and comment on this post (or any other, for that matter), and follow this blog for more posts like this (whenever I come around to write them).